This is actually my very first post on my own blog page. No clue as to how this really works, however, I decided that it was time to write about the areas that I am really passionate about. My goal or purpose is to support and encourage everyday individuals who are struggling with poor self image or anything midlife related that may be causing havoc in their life and relationships. Having walked through both of these areas of turmoil it seems only right to share my experiences with anyone who is willing to listen and in need of someone they can relate to who understands what they are going through.
For the past three years I have been studying for a Bachelor in Psychology (part-time) and have been writing a book for girls of all ages. The book is all about my struggles and triumphs with low self esteem.
Blogging came about as I felt the need to start sharing snippets of truth and support now and not only when I have accomplished gaining a bachelor or have published a book.
While this struggle for me was decades ago no doubt those same struggles are experienced by many right now! Perhaps the opportunities are more frequent today. When I was growing up there was no internet.
In today’s world there are many avenues that can bombard young girls with wrong impressions of what it is to be Beautiful. Social Media profiles of young girls today only highlight the wrong impressions presented which can lead young girls into selling themselves so short in their true value as a person.
Beauty is all about the status and health of your heart. When your heart is restored and whole it reflects true beauty on the outside which is of far more worth than anything superficial. When you are broken and hurting it will always surface at some point. No amount of makeup, clothes or anything else you desperately rely on to feel beautiful is going to make the pain in your heart go away. It has to be dealt with from the inside first.
The heart is the foundation of a person, if the heart is hurting and broken then it is time to spend more energy and effort there rather than on anything external. Quick fixes do not last but when you get the foundation right then everything else will fall into place so much better.
Yours Sincerely, Anu Mari
6 replies on “Why i started to Blog….”
Hi anu congrats on the blog you probably get lots of people wanting to contact you and I hope your book dose well. And good on you for having a go and doing something out of your comfort zone.
Thank You 🙂
It would be nice to hear more of your story Anu and why a good looking young lady felt ugly when growing up. As a man I can relate to your story and it would be nice to explore this further. Asi have studied psychology around counselling I think it has a lot to do with our personalities in secure and insecure attachment theory . Great to see the blog
Thanks Mark 🙂
That is so well said it has brought tears to my eyes. It sounds like you going to be a very good pychologist.
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Thanks Brenda 🙂 I appreciate your feedback it gives me inspiration to keep at it!!!