You Deserve to Choose Yourself.
Stories, tools, and honest conversations for individuals ready to reclaim their lives — one brave choice at a time.
Hi, I’m Anu.
I write about healing, choosing yourself, and the messy, beautiful journey of becoming. If you’ve ever felt lost, silenced, or like you’re finally waking up — you’re in the right place.
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There is no excuse!!!
We all have a story! A theme that wraps around life like liquorice ice cream. Bitter-sweet, familiar, recognisable within seconds! I have several themes that have followed me throughout my…
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Limbo Land
I have been dancing in Limbo Land for over seven months this year as a result of a workplace injury. The injury was psychological in nature! Who would have thought…
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Conversations 👑 — Hair, Thyroidectomy & Menopause
If your hair has changed so much after a thyroidectomy or through menopause that you barely recognize it in the mirror, I’m right there with you. It’s not “just hair”…
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Appreciate your comments. And yes its incredibly important to look after yourself not only in relationships but also work environments,…
This is such a brave, honest, and deeply moving reflection. ❤️ I appreciate how openly you have shared your journey…
Thankyou so much for your encouraging feedback!
This is a deeply moving and beautifully honest reflection. Your comparison between feeling misunderstood and those helpless dreams is incredibly…
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A Good Place to Start
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There is no excuse!!!
We all have a story! A theme that wraps around life like liquorice ice cream. Bitter-sweet, familiar, recognisable within seconds! I have several themes that have followed me throughout my life, from my early days right through to my current…
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Limbo Land
I have been dancing in Limbo Land for over seven months this year as a result of a workplace injury. The injury was psychological in nature! Who would have thought I would be dragged through another episode of mental and…
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Conversations 👑 — Hair, Thyroidectomy & Menopause
If your hair has changed so much after a thyroidectomy or through menopause that you barely recognize it in the mirror, I’m right there with you. It’s not “just hair” — it’s tied to how we see ourselves, how confident…
Your Path, Your Pace 
Absolutely! 😊 We spend such a huge part of our lives at work, so creating healthy, respectful environments is just…